THERE WAS ONLY SO FAR THAT MICHAEL COULD MAKE
A MAN INTENT ON
Setting goals and achieving his aims.
However, he fell victim to that old problem of ‘self sabotage’. This frustrated him even more.
Michael came to me to uncover the root cause of his self sabotage program.
By combining hypnosis with my skills as a Life Coach, we uncovered an experience from his childhood that conditioned him to believe that he couldn’t achieve. This childhood experience surfaced within moments of Michael entering hypnosis (the subconscious always know the root cause of your problem).
He re-experienced a memory where a favorite teacher
BEING IN A PARTICULARLY BAD MOOD ONE DAY, CHASTISED HIM FOR DOING BADLY IN A SPELLING TEST.
He felt humiliated in front of the class and the following phrase she used was indelibly etched on his subconscious. “You’re no good! You’ll never amount to anything!”.
Because she was a strong authority figure he believed her! But yet he resented her remark and became driven to struggle against it. He must prove her wrong! But because he believed her he was always going to prove her right! Through reframing what had happened and changing the emotional content of the memory Michael was able to move on and is today a very successful business man. He is now able to make progress rapidly on his goals without his subconscious pulling him in the opposing direction.
Life Coaching is a professional alliance between coach and client for a designated time period during which the client identifies goals to be achieved, strategies to achieve them and a time frame for this to happen. The coach is the torch bearer in this process, illuminating the way in order for the client to make that journey.
- To identify what it is you want.
- Why it is you want it.
- How it is you’re going to achieve it.
When you sit down with me as your coach you begin a process of change. You will get to know yourself, what drives you, what motivates you, and what seeks to sabotage you. Coaching is a journey that helps you get the most out of your life. It puts you in a position of power over self and in control of change.
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The Choices We Make
Giving away your power “to choose” is a choice in itself. When you become fearful of doing the wrong thing or making the wrong decision it is easier to give that power of choosing to someone else. Typically it could be a parent, a spouse, a friend, a boss, a church. When you become fearful of making mistakes you give your power away. Choosing not to choose is a choice. Choosing to let someone else choose for you is a choice.
Sometimes people go to therapist hoping to be told what to do! “Tell me what to do with my life… Tell me what to say”. Phone lines are hopping up and down the country as physic phone lines are rung by people who seek to be told how their future is going to pan out. It’s ridiculous! You make your future and no-one else! Imagine turning to the person right beside you now and saying “Tell me what I’m going to do?”